Saturday, September 12, 2009

Can't Get My Shoes on Straight


Ever heard of "indoor shoes" and "outdoor shoes"? Coming from the Southwest United States where shoes are optional indoors or outdoors, this concept of having TWO different pairs of shoes was strange, to say the least. This turns out to be what I believe to be both a cultural and practical phenomenon. It is expected here in the Czech Republic, as it is in my husband's Croatian family background, to remove your shoes when you enter anyone's home. So, when visiting or living in Prague, always be prepared to remove your shoes and may be offered house slippers for indoors. We did this in the US only because my husband introduced me to his tradition in his home and I adopted it as my norm. When kids came over to our house in Arizona, they automatically took off their shoes, then went upstairs and played. I didn't ask guests to remove their shoes unless they wanted to.
So, I've been pondering why is there a difference between shoes or no shoes in the house...or "indoor" versus "outdoor" shoes for that matter and came up with this:

I think there's something to the idea that there is a different conception of what is "dirty" - I think many in North America would agree that dust and soil is "clean" and human bodies are "dirty". I did not grow up in a strict no-shoes inside household. So it often doesn't occur to me to remove them. where it's pretty normal to wear shoes inside your house. I mean, you don't have to, but there's no feeling you have to take them off once you come inside. In most of the Southwest US, there are a minority of people who have a "no shoes inside" policy, usually in order to prevent bringing dirt inside (which was my motive with off-white carpet). But taboos regarding clothing run deep; I remember a childrens' activity book I had as a kid, it was probably printed in the 50s or early 60s. It had a puzzle, with a picture of an office setting, and you had to find the 20 things that were wrong in the picture. Most of them were obvious - lettering on the door was backwards, table only had three legs. I found 19 things wrong, and checked the answers for the final thing I missed - "Man wearing a hat indoors."

Of course, climate comes into it. When you live in a warm climate where everyone wore flip-flops pretty much all of the time you'll probably slip them off when indoors. Living in a cold, temperate climate one probably would track in mud/snow and would be more likely to take the shoes off and wear some type of indoor shoe or slipper.

Personally, I prefer to wear shoes inside because that makes it easy to go inside and outside. But, as they say, "When in Rome, do as the Romans."

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Spiny Little Friend



I woke up at three oclock this morning and found some strange little creature at my puppy's water dish. I poked at it with a broom and it rolled up into a ball and didn't even try to get away. I then poured water on it and it scurried off. The dog was going crazy wanting to chase it and I didn't let him. Then I attacked the internet to find out what it was. We don't have anything like this in Arizona so I feel like a child discovering all of these new and wonderful things!
The hedgehog is an insectivore and eats lots of beetles and caterpillars; they particularly like, earthworms and slugs. Hedgehogs have a varied diet and will also eat small mammals, snails, millipedes, earwigs and even bees. I understand they are really wonderful to have in the garden. This helpful information is complements of the National Geographic web site on the Hedgehog http://animals.nationalgeographic.com/animals/mammals/hedgehog.html

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Miločovský forest


Pitkovický Stream

Take some family time to explore the little-known nature trails around Prague. There are 15 such trails, all with well-marked footpaths and paved cycling or walking trails. Part of the Eurobed Project linking a vast artery of hiking trails, these nature preserves were formed gradually with the support of municipalities, communities and the Environment Ministry.
For descriptions and directions to other Eurobed trails, you can request a copy of the Obrazový atlas (Picture Atlas of Tourist Attractions and Educational Trails) from any agency of CzechTourism. The free, 250-page guide, translated into English and German, is an invaluable resource for active families. http://www.mzp.cz/en/
If you are in to cyling, there are 113 designated routes to chose from and this is the place to go for a cycling map of Prague. http://wgp.praha-mesto.cz/tms/projects_a/cyklo/index_en.php#c=-740223%252C-1045983&z=0&l=zm,cak,pop&p=ckl_u,ckl_s,ckl_kr&

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Drive a Skoda



You could say a lot of things about the Czech people, but one thing they do very well is build a tough car called the Skoda (pronounced Sh-koh-da). Just about everyone drives one in Prague and I was given one as a rental until our company car is ordered and delivered…because apparently they don’t keep cars in stock either, ehem. Other car manufacturers build wimpy automobiles that have silly safety features like collapsible bumpers, but not the Skoda as I found out today. Gleefully driving my kids to school, I stopped in front of the school to make a left hand turn. The streets mind you are single lane in both directions so drivers whiz by would be left hand turners on the right to get past…and I do mean WHIZ by. So when I glanced in my rear view mirror and saw a car coming directly at me I momentarily expected he was going around, but to my grave surprise he was looking in his rear view mirror and didn’t even slow down and then, BANG! I don’t know how fast he was going, but it had to be at least 40 kph since the speed limit was posted and he never hit the brakes. Luckily our whole family ware our seatbelts all of the time (thanks, Mom), although people here look at you strange when you get in their car and put on a seat belt because it is an uncommon practice. By the way the kids are fine and I’m just sore in my neck and back. I get out of my car expecting to see the entire trunk caved in and his engine sitting practically in his lap which would have been the case with most other cars. But not the Skoda! With the Skoda the people take the impact and the car ends up with a scratch on the back bumper and his license plate crumpled and tossed into his back seat.
The next thing was waiting for the police. It was only 5 minutes and they drive buy. The other driver said something to them as they were driving by and I thought they would drive back around and write a report and then we would get off the road and stop making a huge traffic jam. The police never came back and about a half hour of blocking traffic while truck drivers with public laborers yelled expletives at us and I back at them in English, we then finally moved into the school parking lot. This whole time the guy is speaking to me in Czech and I’m frantically calling my husband and trying to get someone to interpret so I knew what the heck to do. In the US we aren’t supposed to move the vehicle until the police arrive to make a report. Apparently that was the case in CZ until two years ago when the law was changed to be that if the damage is not estimated to be greater than 200,000 Czech Crowns (about 10,000 USD which most cars don’t cost that much) then the police won’t make a report. They just show up to tell you to get the heck out of the way. I asked my husband’s Czech friend that showed up to help us fill out the accident report required for the rental insurance, why did they make that rule? The response was because there are so many accidents that the police don’t have time to do all of that paperwork! So, let me get this straight. They change the law to make it easier on the police? How about they enforce the speed limit or widen the roads? I know…make some left hand turn lanes! No, just make the accident victim fill out their own accident report and that will solve the problem.

Today’s lessons for living or visiting Prague:
1. Always have your seatbelt on
2. Bring your Czech translation book so you can speak with the other driver (and swear back effectively at the truckers)
3. Get your car out of the way if there are no injuries and minor damage.
4. Know the number to call for an emergency 112– most of them speak English and several other languages.
5. Take pictures of the vehicles for the accident report
6. Don’t expect a lot of sympathy or concern from people when you tell them you were in a car accident…it is common and a non-event to most.
7. Skoda’s are tough and I am not

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

It Climbs, It Creeps, It Grows - Where? Who Really Knows?

Here is a little quiz for you to see just how smart you are about the forest vegetation. Having come from over 30 years living in the Arizona desert, I flunked with flying colors. You get one try. From the pictures below, which of these beautiful plants would you suggest setting up a picnic lunch next to?:



I had no idea and decided that spot number two next to a beautiful open field with wild flowers would be a great spot for the family to enjoy nature and the cool breeze. And we did...for a while; until everyone started itching, burning and getting welts on all exposed parts of their body. You guessed it - poison ivy. Well, it really was a trick question because all of these pictures are of poison ivy. It climbs up trees, creeps along just about any trail or roadside, and it comes in the lovely bush variety as well. These plants have a personal vendetta against all humans. The good news is someone happened along that explained that there is a companion plant that grows right next to it called jewelweed that when rubbed on the skin, stops the welts and burning sensation from getting any worse.
Hope you passed this test and if not, hope you learned from this valuable lesson as I certainly have :) Now everyone sing with me! Poison Iveeeeey, Poison Iveeeeey.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Jerry Lee My new pal

After losing our best friend, Payson, after eight years of loyal companionship, we were blessed with this new bundle of joy, Jerry Lee. Cute, Stubborn, and a total joy to have around! He is my "pet project" as my husband would say.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

There's a Nightmare in my Closet


I was so excited when my husband told me that we were getting a 290 sq meter house (about 3000 sq ft). I walked through in awe and forgot one 'small' detail - Storage space. You'd think I'd know better. I'd been to Europe before, I knew that they didn't have walk-in closets; but did I prepare? Nooooo. For those of you new to this concept, imagine that every room in the house has four walls, windows, a door, light sockets and a light in the ceiling and nothing else.

Look around your place right now and count the number of storage closets that you have...in the kitchen, entry way, bedrooms, hallway for linen, bathroom cupboards, kitchen cupboards, etc. and imagine they are now gone. Where would you store things? What about your pantry? Gone. So, off I go to the local Kika, a furniture store for shopping for 'wardrobes'(free-standing closets) where we spend literally 5 hours picking out what we want and need, find someone that can speak English and is willing to endure us. We sit down to finalize the sale. Expecting we would have to wait a few days for delivery, we discuss what day would be best for the delivery to take place. Without even a blink, the guy asks which day in the second week of October would be better for us. I'm certain the guy thought I was crazy when I exclaimed, "TWO MONTHS! It takes TWO months to deliver this stuff!?" No, he explained with fear in his eye, they have to make it first. Mind you this is not high-end, expensive stuff we are talking about here. I mean this is plywood and screws type furniture that you'd buy in Home Depot or the like. Okay, another wake-up call for me. My on-demand consumer expectations are keeping me on my toes here. I'm coming to that cruel realization that this country and other small European countries don’t just have warehouses full of things waiting for people to pop in and take home by the loads.

In retrospect I would have gone to IKEA in the States and bought 5 boxes of wardrobes and had them put together here in Prague. But I don't even know if IKEA in the States sell free-standing closets. Here we sit with everything neatly stacked in corners of every room; our clothes, towels, and everything else that would have gone into those neat, wonderful little storage spaces we Americans take for granted. Lesson for those of you readers moving to Prague - bring storage closets with you or order them as soon as possible.

Monday, August 10, 2009

To Pee or Not to Pee; That is the Question


Okay, culture shock number 4. I thought there was a really strange smell in front of my building when we moved in to a temporary flat in Prague 2 a month or so ago. I started putting two and two together when I came home from my daily grocery store trek and there was a homeless man camped out on the door step of our building. I couldn’t get in so I proceeded to gingerly poke at his shoe with my tip-toe as to not get to close to him. No luck. The kids were really starting to freak out, so I tried to enlist some street repair workers that were lying down cobble about 50 yards away. They just laughed at my dilemma and went back to what they were doing. “Hmmm, what next?” I pondered. Oh, yeah; my husband was inside the flat and I could just throw small stones at the window and he’ll save me. 30 minutes later and several annoyed next-door neighbor’s later I realized that I could use my cell phone to call my husband. Dah! My rescuer saved me from the smelly man, yeah. Okay, that is the end of the story, right? Well, not exactly. The man came back every day for about a week, but luckily someone else had to confront him. He was gone, and so was the stink – NOT. The smell seemed to be getting worse. It must be the construction site in front of the building with a well hidden portable potty behind the barriers, I thought. The next day I observed one of the workers go behind the barrier as I was hanging out the window staring at passersby…as we European’s do (wink) and to my surprise, he went behind the barrier to pee...on the ground! Yes, this is the Czech version of a Porta-potty. Gross, yes, but not the end. Next that day in broad daylight was a man just walking down the street and decided that the tree looked good and took a whiz right there. Holy cow! My last shock was when we were in downtown Prague sitting having coffee in the town square when a three year old was instructed by her mother to go over to the drain rail in the side of the street to relieve herself. She, without hesitation, pulled down her tighty-whities, squatted and did her business with thousands of people bearing witness.
Even in Babylonian times people understood the need for proper disposal of human wastes; but I’m not convinced that in Prague that concept is fully understood. It is quite surprising the incredible benevolence with which the Czechs tolerate urination in public places which apparently applies to young children and adult men. Some would say this tollerance is a result of the male dominated society here, while others could argue it is the pints the Czech men are downing. Naw, too complicated; they just needs new leash laws :)

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Firsts



Today I had three "firsts". First time to the top of Powder Tower (Prasna Brana) that was built in 1475 under the reign of King Vladislav II Jagiello intended to contribute to the beauty of the Royal Court (King's residence). In the 17th century it was used to store gunpowder; hence the name "Powder Tower". A family of four can get in for $200 czk or around $11.00. It's an pretty nice view of the city but not much more. If you have vertigo or are claustrophobic then you will want to pass on this one. I rather enjoyed the break from walking around the Old Town. I give it a 5 out of 10.

The second thing was going to the Bohemia Bagel. Definately worth the trip for the super-sized hamburger (200 grams or just over quarter pound)with the works. They come with french fries - more than one person can eat - and small bit of coleslaw that was a bit strange for my taste for 135 czk or about $7.35. Come hungry. As my friend Barrie would say, it's a good place for some good ol' comfort food.

My most interesting experience today was catching a pickpocket on the metro with his hand in my bag. I grabbed his hand, squeezed his fingers and threw his hand out...his response was nothing more than a defiant snicker and moved on to the women next to him. Lesson here is to keep your purse zipped shut and under your arm pit the entire time on the metro and trams. NEVER put your bag down or across your chair or you and it will soon part :(

Weather Schizophrenia


It is wise to follow some good advice and bring a portable umbrella and a light jacket at all times. Sunny then rainy...rainy then sunny; you just never know. Visitors to Prague can glean information about how to pack for their trip and what times of year are best to come to this beautiful city at http://www.prague-guide.co.uk/articles/prague-weather-and-when-to-go.html
We're heading to the Bohemia Bagel http://www.bohemiabagel.cz/home.html today for some much needed fresh air, relaxation, yummy food and cappuchino! You have to go to this place when you visit.

Friday, July 17, 2009

Odiferous Bohemians


Some (many) of the men here smell like a vat of Limburger cheese on the trams in mid-July. Deodorant and antiperspirant are apparently optional. I've had to learn to hold my breath and not make sour faces...as anyone who knows me, holding my facial expression isn't an easy feat. So, I had to research this phenomenon and strangely enough this is not only socially acceptable, but preferred by the Czech women - they like their men to smell like MEN...really stinky men (argh). In fact, the women generally look and smell like they stepped out of a beauty magazine and the men they are with look like they just got out of bed with the clothes they've been wearing for a month, unshaven and unbathed. Very confusing. Okay. I realize that I'm generalizing here but these situations seem to keep repeating themselves and I'm just pointing out my personal observations. When my husband left for work this morning, I told him that he is probably offending the women on the tram. Looking confused, and a little hurt, he asked "Why do you say that!?" To which I replied, "Your deodorant and cologne must be very offensive". We laughed; needing no further explanation.
Live and let live, I suppose.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Conversion Crazy

I've forgotten everything that I learned in elementry school about the metric system and wish I hadn't. My mind is working overtime trying to convert everything from the weather, cooking measurements , distance, speed, and don't forget money (well not exactly metric...but you get my drift). Today's tip for traveling or moving to Prague would be to make sure you bring a measuring cup/spoons with both US measurement and metric. Here's a link I used when trying to set the oven for cooking and converting my recipes http://www.allfavoriterecipe.com/RecipeCookingMeasurementConversionChart.aspx
And speaking of weather, I took a glimps of what the weather in my home town is and see that it is 46 C (115 F) and it made me feel guilty about complaining of the heat on the tram today when the temperature here was 25 C (77 F). I suspect the winters in Prague should be revenge enough. Here is a link that you can get the weather in Fahrenheit or Celcius with the click of a button. Look for the icon under the weather picture labled "C/F" http://news.bbc.co.uk/weather/forecast/55
Oh, and don't forget the feet to meters thing. We are trying to find a suitable place to live and really struggle with square meters to square feet...oh and the I wish I'd measured my furniture and brought my measuring tape with me so when we are looking at houses I could know for sure if my bedroom set and livingroom furniture will fit into the smaller rooms. I love the smaller living quaters (less to clean) but have American furniture which seem colosil by European standards. So, measure before you move!
Shopping is interesting trying to figure out if you are getting a good deal or paying too much. My point of reference is totally blown, but have figured out a quick way to convert US dollars to CZ crowns (kc). At present the US dollar is about 20:1 which makes things easier. Here is an example where I should have shopped around before I bought, but got too emotional instead of calculating the value of what I was buying to the price. Some Nike flip-flops were 690 kc. First divide the total amount by two (about 450) and then drop the zero. I payed about $45 for a pair of flip-flops! Probably too much...but they are Nike :)
Well, happy shopping!

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Where Have All the Children Gone?


Here is a curious thougtht...where have all the children gone in Prague? Walking around the past two weeks, I've noticed that there are almost no children over the age of 5. Well, as it turns out, it is a Czech social norm for families to go to their summer homes for the duration of the summer! If they don't have a summer home, then they send their children to summer camps away from the city. They are really big on outdoor activities. Too bad my kids are the only ones to be found in a 30 mile radius (or so it seems). Parents start signing their kids up in the fall because the programs fill up fast. Thank goodness my husband planned for us to go visit his family on the Croatian coast for two weeks or I think I would lose my mind trying to entertain two 8 and 10 year old boys! Well, next summer I will know better.

I did manage to befriend another English speaking family with an 11 year old girl. I've arranged for us to see Ice Age in English located in Praha 1 not too far from our flat. Here is a link to find a movie theatre (AKA "Cinema") http://www.expats.cz/prague/directory/cinemas/0///

Discovering Havlíčkovy Sady and Basketball Camp

We have a temporary flat in Prague 2 also referred to as Vinohrady which is within 5 minutes walking to Pragues second largest park, Havlickovy Sady. If you love the outdoors and need a quick get away, then you have to check out this site http://www.myczechrepublic.com/prague/havlickovy-sady-park.html or get a 360 degree view of the park at http://www.360cities.net/image/havlickovy-sady-in-prague-czech-republic
There are two kids playgrounds which are geared mostly for smaller children, however the playground at the top of the park at the entrance Rybalakova has a basketball court where you can either bring your own ball or ask the attendent to borrow theirs. There is a basketball camp conducted in English if your youngster wants to attend http://www.basketballcamp.cz/

First Week


Moving from the U.S. to Europe has proven to be both exciting and confusing. Everything seems familiar and so foreign; such a whirl wind of emotions. Visiting with the children several times over the years have made the transition for all of us much more seamless than it could have been when moving with an 8 and 10 year old. The kids are looking at the move as another vacation and not fully understanding that they are here to stay and that they will have to make new friends, go to a new school, and get used to new traditions and social norms.
An example of some differences that have popped up are:
1. People smoke everywhere; in restaurants, bathrooms, etc. They haven't yet picked up on the second hand smoke issue :)
2. They LOVE their dogs. I've seen just about every breed of purebred pooch known to man. I am a dog lover myself, but wish they would pick up their poo. There are little land mines on the sidewalks! People can even bring their dogs on public transit. Because of the close relationships people have with their dogs and bring them everywhere, the dogs are very well behaved. They patiently wait outside the shops for their owners to return without any leash and won't leave. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't see it for myself.
3. Everything is closed on the weekend. Europeans really love their personal time and make no bones about taking time off for their families and friends. I suspect the U. S. consumerism culture and economy has brought us to the point that buying stuff is more important. In this, we have something to learn from the Europeans.
4. Everyone walks everywhere. Believe it or not, I really love this about Prague. You don't really need to have a car if you live in the city because the tram, metro, or buses will take you everywhere you need to go. Short walks from each station or to your final destination is exillerating. The down side to no car is having to carry your groceries and having to shop everyother day to keep your supplies.
5. Be prepared to pay to use a public toilet (genrally 10-20 cz = .50-$1.00) in some restaurants and metro stations. One German women about 20 yrs old tried to go in without paying and the Czech attendent chased after her and refused to let her in the stall...mental note; always carry change!

Ciao for now!